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This soccer publication is strangely dull, yet oddly compelling. Its title causes confusion. The Dear England title currently belongs to a popular play, an upcoming TV show, and a public letter authored by the manager in 2021.

This version of Dear England isn’t formally connected to those. It stands as an oddity in the Dear England Multiverse, a volume about guidance: a classically dry elite football manager theme that Southgate adheres to doggedly, using the words “leadership”, “guiding” or “management” no fewer than 500 times across its 336-page length.

Questions Raised

“Who are the leaders? What actions do leaders take? What insights do leaders have?” the author questions early on, outlining his stall, but choosing not to address “When are leaders?”, questions presumably set aside for a second book.

Otherwise, this publication contains a notable absence throughout. It’s an exercise in indirectly hostile personal vindication, in nearly but not entirely saying the underlying truth, jumping nimbly from unsettled score to fresh pain across a assortment of data visualizations, corporate platitudes and references about Thomas Cromwell.

Engagement

Reading it is like overhearing your parents having a mannered but profoundly personal debate in the adjacent space while you’re attempting to focus on a business seminar named “112 Reasons Why Naturally I Had the Last Laugh”. But it is also difficult to put down, as Southgate keeps approaching to something you actually want to learn about, before abruptly changing tack.

Insights

The book contains always attention-grabbing disclosures in books like these, due to the intense fascination with England managerdom. The most striking ones are: the manager decided he was definitely going to quit as England manager after fans threw containers at him at the tournament; he came very close to forfeiting the game at half-time against Bulgaria in 2019 after his team were subjected to racism; he pioneered the approach of dedicated restart experts and the entire league in the Premier League is now copying him; he has now misplaced his love for the sport, a shocking confession casually mentioned in a short passage at the conclusion.

Managing England through a period of rage, aspiration, political ferment and lockdown was a harsh experience. The scars are clearly still unhealed.

Generic Content

Otherwise, the narrative is overrun with an computer-generated linguistic mush of generic management talk. Review editions of this book were distributed with reviewers under secrecy pacts ahead of release, presumably out of fear someone might leak that “tough talks can, by their very essence, be difficult”, that you should always consider the consequences, that guidance takes place where evolution meets empathy.

Sincere Expression

There is however real emotion present. Guiding England through a time of fury, aspiration, turmoil and pandemic restrictions was a grueling ordeal. The wounds are obviously still unhealed, albeit expressed in a terminology-heavy reimagining of the classic football manager story: how my decisions were correct about each issue throughout.

Notable Cases

The book’s introductory section, disguised as thrilling accounts of the final of Euro 2024, is completely dedicated to how successful the manager actually was at substitutes (the big criticism of Southgate being he wasn’t successful at making changes). Subsequently, he explores significant detail about how he oversaw the championship match of 2021 perfectly – particularly the losing tiebreaker – because he adhered to a set protocol, which implies that introducing youthful talents at the last moment to take the biggest attempt of their careers was sensible and correct.

This was validated by a winning shootout against the Swiss team at a later tournament after a match where England spent the full duration looking as if they were attempting to wear a pullover the inside out. “The control we exerted in that penalty decider was simply exhilarating,” Southgate writes, in between likening the showing to special forces neutralizing Osama bin Laden. Oh Gareth.

Withheld Details

On the occasions we approach to a revelation, the manager withdraws from specifying people or sharing the substance. We hear there were difficult England players who insisted on more attention, perhaps because they were spoilt during the beginning of their time in football. But as you anticipate hopefully, he is already diverting into something called a specific management theory, which asserts that as opposed to a grouping of attributes or ideals, team environment is in fact something that is developed by, unfortunately, please, no more.

Highlights

Among the better sections are when Southgate explores about the piecemeal process of building mental toughness in young people, or how he sought to articulate Englishness more lucidly and more helpfully than any public personality in the limelight. The standout section, there is a really absorbing account of that distressing match in the Bulgarian capital where England’s black players were viciously abused (and afterwards protected forcefully by their leader).

Genuine Ending

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